Brief Reflections on My Day

This morning, I met with a college-aged man in the chapel of the Protestant Campus Center as is my weekly custom.  Most of what we talk about is private, but I can say that the conversation gently reminded me to relax back into spending more quality time with God daily—though I have been praying and seeking to move in the Spirit, I haven’t taken the Sabbath time I need to not only rest in God but also to digest what He has been teaching me.  The conversation was interrupted by thunder and some gorgeous heavy rain along with hail.

After that meeting, I met with a local area pastor (as is my weekly custom).  It was an excellent time to sit and listen over lunch, and later to share.  Again, most of what we speak about is private.  This conversation encouraged me in a few ways that I cannot share, but it also encouraged me to keep praying and not worrying about life too much as I seek to live for the Kingdom daily.  In truth, after praying and doing all I can do, there really is nothing else I can do in most situations; though there are several things that I could try and think through and worry about in life right now—they really are in God’s hands.  I am excited to see what He’ll do.

The rest of my day involved a brief community time at a small group I lead; I am excited to be able to likely spend more time talking and reading the Bible next week!  I also taught Aikido, spent some time with my fiancé, and took care of quite a bit of office work that needed done; there’s still more to do!  Now, I am TRULY excited to let my head hit the pillow and to sleep in my warm house.  The weather is bitterly cold (it dropped from sixty something today to under twenty), but it is warm inside, and tomorrow, for the first time in a LONG time, I can sleep in a bit and almost make 8 hours of sleep!  Good night, and God bless!

Reflections

Wednesday before Easter was a surprising day—I had been feeling under the weather, so I slept in a bit.  I figured that in the long run it was more important to get well quickly than it was to get in an extra hour of work; I also knew that I could work really hard to make my time up.  I had a LOT of work to get to!  There were a million little detail-things that needed done for promotion material for the upcoming Unite Mission Trip, some work for upcoming [alt] coordinating meetings, and work for an awareness drive reminding the churches of The Welcoming Event for next semester.  Little did I know that my planned work day was about to change course drastically. 

The night before, a Chinese college-aged student had stopped in the dojo during open mat time and asked me if I could help him with his car.  His window wouldn’t go up.  It didn’t take long to figure out that his window arm regulator was shot.  With a little bit of work we got his window back up and sent him on his way with info for a mechanic.  I also had left him my ministry card for him to call me if he needed any help.

Now in the middle of my busy Wednesday (right as I sat down to work, actually), I received a call from him.  It turned out that the mechanic couldn’t help him until next week, and the student needed to leave in a couple of days (he wasn’t an FHSU student—he was just visiting friends who were, and he needed to get home); so, I directed him to another mechanic.  Then he called back with the same result.  After another such call or two, I suggested we meet back at the dojo so I could see what we could do.  On the way, I called a mechanic from my church who said he could help out the next day.  After some work and a call to the mechanic from my church with both the student and me on the other line, we got it all figured out.

By now, I had lost a lot of my work time, so I called my fiancé to see if she wanted to join me for a Wal-Mart run instead of a bike ride; I had to get out there to buy some things for an upcoming event at Unite Game Night.  She understood the change of plans and agreed.  We dashed through the store and loaded up our car.  In the lot as we were about to step into the car I got an excited wave from a college-aged guy I know.  He parked and came over and shared a very exciting and encouraging story about what God had been doing in his life.  Within a very short period of time, it became apparent that he needed to express what all had been happening, and I truthfully wanted to listen as did my fiancé; so, we did.  The story was great, it had a good lesson for me to ponder in my life, and we all left happy—gladder for the conversation—about forty-five minutes later.

By now, most of my day had been eaten up by seemingly chance encounters, so I hurried to drop my fiancé., Tella, off at her Perspectives class (after getting us both some food); afterwards I was going to head to the youth group I help with on Wednesdays.  As I dropped Tella off at her class, she said something prescient—“if you end up talking with a student late, don’t worry about it; I have a book so you can pick me up as late as need be.”

Well, sure enough, I ended up in another long (though EXCELLENT) conversation.  This time, the lesson at youth group was good for me to reflect on AND it related to the lesson I had received earlier in the day when listening to the young man in the Wal-Mart parking lot.  One part of that lesson was to not let life distract me but to focus back on Jesus and the Kingdom (the people He came to save).  At the end of our time in youth group, a young woman whom I know was sitting in a corner by herself, seemingly lost in thought and upset.  I sat down nearby and just chilled in silence.  Eventually, we began having an excellent conversation.  Over time the youth pastor (Jeff) joined us, and we continued to talk for almost another thirty to forty-five minutes.  The talk was deep, critically important, and one that I very much enjoyed.  I would not have traded it.  Afterwards, I hurried to pick up Tella at Perspectives, which had been over for awhile.  It turned out that she already had a ride home, so I met her there and hung out with her for a little bit before going to bed and crashing from a long day.

The lesson I learned about not being distracted in Youth Group very much applied to my day; it had started busy with many worries about logistics for valid ministry things; however, my focus was off—it was on them in a stressful light.  By the end of the day, it became obvious what at least three of the things had been that I was really supposed to have done that day, and all of them weren’t on my radar screen.  It was an excellent reminder of what God’s Kingdom Work really is—people.  It’s not to say that those other things don’t need done or don’t benefit people.  I also acknowledge that there are times that I have to get that work done to facilitate good God-moments with other people.  Both things are a part of it; however, it can be very easy for me in my busy days to get so focused on those details that I am too busy to stop and listen to the real opportunities around me in the actual day that is occurring.  I am a firm believer that the Bible talks about planning for the future wisely to some degree; I also see that it says not to WORRY about tomorrow and that it seems to emphasize living prayerfully in the moment now—for that is the only moment we have.  It is within the balance of those two truths that I seek to live—and man can that be hard some days!  Please feel free to pray for me in that ;)  Still, when I am in the balance between those two, I find that I can both listen to the opportunities and engage them as they come AND get the work done when the windows for such work come, too.  Days that flow beyond well like that seem rare, but they are sure are cool when they happen!  What’s much cooler is that I have a God who is willing to help guide and direct my stubborn self into the moments in my day even when I am unaware of them.  Thank God for that and for special moments with others—they are part of an abundant life and the abundant life to the full that Christ came to freely give us!  Moments like that with God and others are special to me beyond words.  I pray that you may have some special moments with God and other people in your future, as well, and that you are listening to the opportunities in the day and seize them!

In an effort to keep newsletters smaller in future, I will be publishing more reflective pieces like the one above on the prayer blog (http://www.UniteEph4-1-16.blogspot.com) and on the Unite Facebook page.  I will still occasionally feature them in newsletters, but the newsletters will be shorter and present more of an overview of the month (with some exceptions).  If you like this idea or dislike this idea, please email me at Brandon.Nimz@gmail.com and let me know your thoughts.  As always, thanks for reading and may God bless!

Feb 2013 Newsletter: Urgent Updates!

It appears that God has answered two prayers in a very big way.  First, thank you all VERY much for your prayers for the Perspectives on the Christian World Movement class.  Through prayer, God’s providence, gracious donors, and new students signing up for the class, the course is now financially able to run for the full semester.  Though that may seem minor, it was very important for the students who were already taking it—including my girlfriend, Tella.  That brings me to the second answered prayer (or prayers)—my girlfriend Tella and I are now engaged!  We are both (obviously) very excited about it, and we are very much looking forward to what the future holds!

In both of these instances, I know that many believers were praying.  For Perspectives, many people responded to my email and said that they were praying, and others went out to see what God would provide.  In relatively short order, the needs of the course were taken care of.  Regarding my engagement, my family has been praying for me to end up with a good wife for many years.  I myself have long prayed that if God had one special person set aside for me that He would help me find her; I also prayed that if He did not have one specific person that He would help me make the wisest/best choice possible.  I further prayed that He would do whatever was necessary to help me get there since I can be very stubborn and hard-of-hearing in such matters.  Though I had thought a couple of my earlier relationships might be the one that I had been praying for, specific circumstances eventually made it obvious that they were not.  After a time, I gained more experience, and I believe that God helped me hear His voice a little better.  I noticed in Proverbs that it says, “He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the Lord” (Prov 18:22), yet it also says in Proverbs 19:14, “Parents can provide their sons with an inheritance of houses and wealth, but only the Lord can give an understanding wife.”  Since only the Lord can give an understanding wife, and since my lifestyle of service to the Lord whatever He may ask very much requires an understanding wife, I began to pray that He would provide one.  I also began to realize that only if He provided one would I ever be able to have a companion and live how I desired to live.

After dating Tella for some time, I started to wonder if she might be that answer to prayer.  Even as my girlfriend, many of her attributes already fit with me very well and with what I needed, and who she was fit very well with who I was.  Our hearts and desires for the present and the future were also heavily in line.  Over time, it became obvious to me that I would want no one else as a companion to walk with me through life’s adventures and that I would much prefer to walk through life with her than without her.  She is such a great blessing to me that I do not have words to adequately describe it, and I myself receive joy beyond words seeking to be a blessing to her.  Now we are on our path together, and I thank God beyond words.

The way that those two prayers were answered is a good reminder for me to trust God to answer prayers in His way and His time.  While the prayers for Perspectives had an immediate answer, there was more than a decade between when I began praying about a potential partner and when it came about.  I also had numerous false leads that might have, at the time, led me to believe that God wasn’t answering my prayers.  Ultimately, we can now see that He has answered my prayers, and He answered them well.  Despite my stubbornness, He seems to have helped keep my earlier relationships from becoming what they shouldn’t have been, and then He ultimately blessed me with my relationship with Tella in a way that was even better than I could have asked for!  Thank God for such providence and for the fact that He is true to His Word and true to His nature!  

In the same way as He answered prayers for Perspectives and for me to have a wife, I trust that He will continue to provide for our basic needs if we continue to seek first His Kingdom (Matthew 6) as we prepare to embark on this new journey.  I also believe that He’ll do even more than that!  Jesus on multiple occasions said that if we give up our lives for Him, He will give us true life and life to the full.  He has helped me slowly let go of my old life, and He has certainly given me life to the full!  I have been blessed beyond words—I have a fiancé who is better than I could have dreamed of, I have a job that is not just a job but a passion, I have adventure and variety and the unknown in my life, and I am blessed with friends, loved ones, and a community.  What more could I ask for, truly?

Despite this tremendous providence, I have been questioned at times by those whom I love if God is really providing for me based on my income.  It is true that my income is small for the United States--$907 per month out of a goal income of $2,320 per month.  However, it is more than enough for what I need now.  He has always helped me meet all of my critical needs, and even on such a small income, I have been making aggressive repayments on my couple of small remaining school loans and my business/ministry startup loan.  Sometimes as my car breaks down or other things happen I take two steps forward and one step back, but I have still always been moving forward.  This, to me, is providence.  It is true that my expenses will increase when I marry; Tella is still a student for another year, so there will be no extra income, but my rent (which has been so low since four of us guys live in a three bedroom house) will increase when she and I move in together after the wedding, and I will have to look at private family health insurance options (I am currently uninsured).  Even so, I remain firmly convinced that God will provide for these things—our basic needs—as He always has.

However, in part due to some of my loved ones’ doubts and in part because I believe He will answer it, I have been praying and continue to pray that God would provide even more than that.  I have been praying that God will help move my income not just up to the most basic new needs, but up to the goal amount of $2,320 per month, which is equivalent to what I would earn if I left ministry and taught Math or Spanish at a high school (both of which I can do right now with my degrees).  It is also starting salary for many full time youth pastors and part-time salary for many college ministry workers.  Since I do more than full time college ministry and other missionary work, it seems to be an appropriate amount.  I have been praying this for some time, and I feel that God has begun slowly answering it; though my income has held at $907 per month, there have been occasional surprise one-time donations, and there is just a feeling I have that He will be showing more soon.  I have also recently had good conversations about approaching churches for financial support, and I feel peace to finally step out and do it in the same way that overseas missionaries and other in-state missionaries like me frequently do.  Many churches may not want to support me on a monthly basis, but if I look at this as a yearly goal, then only $16,400 needs to be raised by the end of this year to get my salary taken care of.  If just 32 churches vote to give $500 on a one-time or yearly basis, that would completely cover it!  When it comes down to it, I firmly believe in the vision of this ministry and what we can accomplish—and I do need funded to accomplish it!  As such, I am willing to work at this as hard as I work at the other parts of the ministry, too.  I continue this prayer, and I ask you to join with me in it.  I also ask you to seriously, prayerfully consider asking your church’s leadership if they would invite me to come out and speak about my mission work and seek to raise financial support for it.  Regardless of whether God answers this prayer quickly, slowly, or in a surprising way, I am convinced that He will answer it, too, and that however He does answer it, it will be for the best.  Thank you!

Newsletter

Foreword:

Hello everyone!  I had planned to send out this newsletter at the end of January as a special ‘double issue’ covering the end of last year (December) and the beginning of this year (January).  Unfortunately, several unexpected things (including praying and seeking money for Perspectives early this month) set me back a bit!  I will still send out February’s newsletter near the end of February, but I will likely make it shorter since this one is so long!  I apologize for the delay, and I thank you for your continued prayers for me as a missionary and for Unite as a ministry!

Newsletter:

God seems to often work through the unexpected.  As those of you in Northwestern Kansas know, this New Year’s Eve day brought in a LOT of snow—more than had originally been expected.  My girlfriend, Tella, and I were going to head up to Plainville with some friends to bring in the New Year.  With several inches of snow on the ground and more falling, we had to change plans and stay in Hays.

While we were running out to get some supplies at Wal-Mart, we passed someone walking down Main Street.  Tella recognized the person as Martha, one of the women from our Monday morning small group this last semester.  The snow was too deep to turn around directly, so we looped around a block and pulled up next to her and offered her a ride.  As it turned out, she was on her way to a special evening mass at her church; we were able to give her a ride to her service and time our shopping so that we could pick her up, too.  When we picked her up, she surprised us by inviting us in for dinner. 

We were a little unsure whether or not to accept—we had some plans for later that evening and didn’t know when everything was going to happen, but we felt like we had enough time, so we went in and joined her for supper.  While she was heating up food, I headed outside and started shoveling off her driveway.  As I was shoveling, I began to reflect about how well that evening was working out from entirely unplanned and unexpected events; even though everything came up by surprise, we each had something that could serve the other well.  Tella and I had an already-warmed up car, and we were already driving around.  We were able to use that as a blessing to Martha.  She had spare warm food and time for conversation.  That was a blessing to us.  I had the time while the ladies talked to take care of her driveway, and Martha had experience and wisdom to share when we talked over supper later.  It just seemed to jump out at me that God really did build all of us so that we could be blessed and bless one another in turn.  All we have to do is seek to genuinely love one another in whatever situation arises, and we can experience much of the community that scripture indicates God built us for.

As the night wore on, we ate our food and began a series of very enjoyable discussions.  One of the more intriguing was over an old Volga German tradition that Martha could remember that she said was called ‘winching’ (probably a form of a German word ‘Wunschen’).  Apparently, when she was little, it was common custom to go out on New Year’s Day and every day for the next week or so and ‘wunsch’.  This involved knocking on the door of close friends and family and giving them a traditional blessing in German to have a good New Year.  In response, the friend or family member would thank those ‘wunsching’ and give them alcohol (usually beer or spirits), unless the person giving the blessing was younger, in which case they would be given money.  This wasn’t meant to be completed in one night, but was done over the course of the first week of the New Year until a person had greeted and blessed all of their family, friends, and loved ones in the region.

I was immediately enamored with this tradition for a few reasons.  One was simply that it was cool—I had never heard of such a tradition, and I tend to find history and traditions to be somewhat fascinating.  It also just sounded like a fun thing to do—kind of like Halloween without the costumes but with blessings instead of tricks and with better gifts than just candy.  More importantly though, I thought that it was really impressive how this and many other traditions (such as Christmas caroling) that are more common to the older generations were truly designed to form and reinforce a broader sense of community.  Each one of these traditions made people think more about extended family and friends, spend more time with them, and even bless them during holiday times.

It seems to me that at times my generation’s society works against genuine community—especially broad, genuine community; we often have small groups of friends but find it hard to be a legitimate part of a bigger community.  While there are many factors that lead to this, it often boils down to my generation just being ‘too busy’ in our minds for broad community.  I can tell you from scheduling my ministry’s small groups and leadership meetings that it is NOT easy to find times that fit everyone’s schedule—between work, school, family, obligations, and other priorities most schedules are pretty packed.  Often when we do gather for things like ‘small group’, it initially takes a fair amount of time for us to quiet down from our crazy days enough to listen to others and to God.  I am not speaking as one who is not overly busy himself—I speak as one who is often himself too busy.  With everything going on it is just so easy to do.  The reason that I bring this up, though, is not to simply condemn busy-ness or exhort us all to open up our schedules more (though that could be a good idea for some of us, including me), but to point out that in today’s society we have to make community—especially broad, encompassing, and loving community—a high priority if it is ever to happen at all.  It is very easy to underestimate the importance of community to our health and spiritual lives, but we all should look very closely at scripture and especially at Christ’s words before we dismiss community as not very important.

To truly see the importance of community, I think we have to look at God’s heart and his plan from the beginning.  In Genesis 1:26-27 we see that we are created in God’s image--it says male and female they created us.  In their image, they created us (some translations of the Bible say He created them, but the Hebrew word ‘Elohim’ used for God is plural, not singular).  This is interesting—that the trinity would create us (plural) in their (plural) image.  This makes sense on several levels.  Love is only fully existent with at least two—a person loving and a person to receive love.  A person who loves but doesn’t have a person to receive their love is not able to fully express love.  Also, a person to be loved who does not have anyone to love them is not a full expression of love.  Only when one person can love another is love fully expressed (and it is even more fully expressed when it is mutual).  The Bible teaches that God is love (1 John 4:8).  We just mentioned that love doesn’t fully exist with just one—and God isn’t just one!  There are three—the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit.  Well that makes sense then that they together in community are God, since God is love.  It also makes sense that they created us (male and female) in their image—plural.  We were meant to be in loving community from the very beginning, and since love (and God is love) is part of that, we were meant to be in community with God from the very beginning.  Once we sinned, we were unable to fully receive God’s love (as evidenced when Adam and Eve ran away and hid from God).  Our guilt and shame kept us from receiving it as we once did, and community was broken in part.  At that time, God began a plan to restore us to Him and to the love and community that we were built for.  In Genesis 12:1-3 it states that

Abraham and his family were blessed to be a blessing and that ultimately the whole earth would be blessed through them.  This came to fruition when Christ, descendant of Abraham, came and dealt with our sin and its separating guilt and shame in full on the cross, so that we could again freely receive God’s love and be in community with Him and others.  This isn’t just abstract theology.  Let me say that again, Jesus came so that we could be rectified with the Father and live again in community with God and with others!  If His very purpose was to restore us to community with God and others, then how high an emphasis should broad, loving community be in our real lives?  Does this reality translate into how we live as Christians and how highly we emphasize living as a loving community to all others?

Jesus highlights ways to really love others and live in community in the Sermon on the Mount (Matthew 5-8), and He reinforces its importance when He says that all the law and the prophets can be summed up in ‘love the Lord your God with all of your heart, soul, strength and mind and love your neighbor as yourself’ (Matthew 22:37-39).  He even teaches the disciples how to do this—washing their feet and commanding them to love one another as He has loved them right before He went to the cross (John 13).  His last fully recorded prayer on earth is that all believers might be one as He and the Father are one (John 17).  If that isn’t a mind-blowing concept, I don’t know what is!  That Jesus would pray that we have the same unity and oneness that God the Father and Jesus the Son share!  Wow.  All of this is later followed by a bunch of New Testament letters that constantly exhort believers to love one another, to not give up the habit of meeting, to seek to be one in the Spirit and one in love.  Again and again it emphasizes ideas of unity, loving one another, and loving others who are not believers.  We are repeatedly told as a community to care for widows, orphans, and the foreigner among us.  Everywhere a loving, broad, Bible-following community is emphasized.  In sharp contrast to how Christianity is often presented in our era (as a religion centered on helping individuals in their separate, private lives ‘not sin’ and do good things), the Bible shows that Christianity is centered on God’s heart as He passionately does what is necessary to save those He loves and restore them to loving community with Him and others.  We then, as a community, are challenged to reach out and love all others—from those whom society does not care for to even our enemies.  In this love, we are challenged to become one with God and with others.  What a high calling!  What a high emphasis broad, loving community should have in our lives!

This leads me to my New Year’s challenge (and it is still early in the New Year, so feel free to take it up even though we are in February)!  I challenge myself, and I invite you to join me by challenging yourselves, to seek to live actively for Christ and the Kingdom this year NOT by first emphasizing moral purity (not that I am saying I WON’T seek to be morally pure—just saying that I don’t want ‘not sinning’ to be my primary focus), but instead by emphasizing looking for opportunities to love others genuinely and to be in community with others genuinely.  May this generation take a lesson from the older generation in building broad, loving community!  May we UNITE this year in the Spirit and in Love by actively seeking to go out of our way to love and bless others!  Let’s pray Jesus’ final prayer for us and seek to be one with the One who came to restore community!

Note: Below we have information on various outreach projects along with ways that you can pray for Biblical community in them.  You are also welcome to become involved in them directly!  Please keep us in your prayers, and PLEASE feel free to send me prayer requests, too!

More information about all of these outreach projects is available at www.UniteHays.com.

Unite Game Night and Common Grounds Coffee House

Pray that our barista team can pray and be Biblical peacemakers whenever it is necessary.  Pray that the churches would send out more people to get to know the college students and befriend them.

Get Plugged In

Pray that more churches get involved in this day in a bigger way.  Each church is invited to campus this day to greet the incoming Fort Hays State University students in love and to care for them.  Some have in past given care packages, food, coffee, and more; may God use this to reach out to campus!

Nomads Trip

Pray that God use the trip to help those who go from various churches to bond in the Spirit and in Love.

Unite Small Groups

Pray that we can open up and share and that God help us see Him as we study His Word.  Pray that more Christians would join these small groups to interact with college students.

Juarez Mission Trip

Pray that God help those who go from various churches to bond in the Spirit and in love; pray that we bond with those in Juarez, Oklahoma City, and Hays.  May we see more opportunities to reach out in love in our home communities!

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May God help those who plan and help with [alt] to bond as believers as we reach out to provide an alternative event to the post-Oktoberfest partying in Hays, Kansas.

Here are some game night photos from last Friday!  Our small groups are also up and running, and we are preparing for some upcoming things this semester, this summer, and next semester!  Please keep God's work out here and our ministry in your prayers!  :)

Recent Game Night Photos

Here are some recent game night photos!  Please keep this Friday night alternative to the bar scene in your prayers.  The first two weeks that we have been back in operation since school has started have been quite good; the first one was short (ended around 2:00 a.m.), and the second one lasted until almost 5:00 a.m.!  Both nights were quite fun, and I was blessed to have some great conversations with students who are back for the semester.  Thanks again for your prayers!  :)